Act of Kindness
Give a compliment to a stranger :
On the 5th of October , my sister and I were out in a library to buy some school supplies.
While flipping through notebooks, testing pens and makerkers , a really gorgeous girl walked by! And this is our conversation was like :
Me : “Um h-hi hello , we don’t know each other but I just wanted to tell you that you’re really beautiful.
Her : “Okay, say mashallah” then she walked away.
That was so embarrassing and awkward, I thought. But that actually taught me how to give an acceptable compliment to get a good response/reaction. Maybe she was self concious or shy, she might need compliment an artificial rather than natural attribute.
So I've found that people are less likely to feel embarrassed or threatened if you are very specific with your compliment.
The next day I wanted to try with someone else and see if they accept the compliment, so I decided to say “I love that Abaya you’re wearing , the color is beautiful and it looks really good on you".
And that actually went well, the girl said thanks and complimented me too.
These two experiences taught me how to be sincere, smile, and to not violate the stranger’s personal space while I speak .
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